
obedience, for the most part, is one of the few things that is NEEDED if ky’lar is going to spend ANY amount of time around you. It’s not exactly a REQUIREMENT, but he prefers more DOMINATE roles, and ENJOY’S being in charge. if he isn’t, there is a MAJOR chance that he’s going to everything in his ABILITY to establish some control there —- even if it’s NOT going to work out in the long run.
short version; he likes to be in CONTROL of every situation he’s in as it makes him feel SAFE.