_{ky does NOT enjoy sex often. the very thought of having that much PHYSICAL contact ( more so connection ) with another is something he avoids. he plain finds it from unnecessary to on some days quite honestly REPULSIVE.} 

_{that does NOT mean he won’t have it; he enjoys foreplay far more than the ACTS themselves. anything in that could be ( but not limited to ) choking, slamming against walls, and what have you on the more severe side of the spectrum.}

_{chains and collars are his favorite – just to DEHUMANIZE someone into a pet ( possibly even more than he has already ). because, in his mind, if whoever is on the level where he’s comfortable with such actions? they belong to him – usually even their soul  depending on the situation.}

_{on the other side of the spectrum, ky would have to TRUST someone over 110% for them to do ANYTHING to him.} 

_{he ENJOYS – no NEEDS to be in control. he wants to KNOW that no one else is pulling the strings. the only time he would LET that go in these types of situations is if he KNEW the one he was with WOULDN’T take advantage of that slight amount of lack of control or even trust.}